Weddings nowadays come with their own set of rules.
Wedding guests (as well as the wedding party) have a lot more freedom in their style.
But before you whip out any outfit remember that there are still some rules you should think about beforehand.
Some rules are quite straightforward such as what colour to wear and what colour to avoid.
Other weddings, however, set a dress code that might have us scratch our heads.
The thing you should always keep in mind is that the wedding you’re invited to is not *your* big day.
While you want to look good (as you should), don’t try to upstage the wedding party.
Here is a list of the Dos and Don’ts:
Don’t wear white.
This one should be a no brainer.
Also don’t wear any other light colours like off-white, or really pale blue.
Lighter colours tend to photograph white, and you obviously don’t want that… right?
The only time you can wear white is if the bride has specifically requested that guests wear it.
Other times, don’t even try. Just no.
Avoid wearing the bridal party’s colours.
STAY AWAY from the colours of the bridal party!!!
Unless obviously you’re part of it… or it was requested.
Unless you already know what the colours are, you may be able to tell from the colour scheme of the wedding invitation.
Try asking around if you still don’t know, for the sake of the wedding.
Wearing something with prints can be a good idea to avoid matching with the bridal party if you still can’t figure out what the theme is.
Don’t go *too* casual.
Don’t even try showing up in jeans or a t-shirt.
Even if the wedding is laid back, it usually isn’t that casual.
Some advice? If you have to choose between being underdressed or overdressed, it’s always better to be overdressed.
If you’re unsure of what to wear, don’t be afraid to reach out for help, it is less embarrassing than showing up in jeans.
Cover your shoulders when applicable.
Some wedding ceremonies are religious so make sure to be respectful.
If the ceremony is taking place in a church or in an institution with a modest dress code it’s important to remember to bring a shawl or a cardigan to cover yourself.
After all, weddings are a sacred occasion.
Rethink the sparkles
Not outshining the couple can take a literal meaning.
Unless specified don’t wear something glitzy.
It’s important to understand that while you want to be the best dressed, your outfit shouldn’t take up all the attention.
Don’t go against the dress code.
Do you really want to be that person?
Learn to read the room! (or the invitation)
Pay attention to the location as it can help you figure out the dress code.
The wedding location can always give you a better idea on what to wear.
The time of the ceremony can also help indicate and determine the style of your outfit.
A day wedding might mean bright colours and flowy fabrics and an evening wedding might mean that you should wear something more formal with black and gold hues.
Obviously that was just a general guideline, but just be sure to be strategic about your outfit in order to blend in.
Be strategic about your choice of shoes.
Just like you have to be strategic about your outfit, you have to think the same way about the shoes.
Comfort is important, especially if you plan on turning up on the dance floor!
Location of the wedding also matters, so pick out your fanciest sandals if you got a beach wedding coming up!
Make sure you shoes match the vibe!
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